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Creating an Outrageous Life — in Bali!

December 21st, 2009

When you let yourself see clearly who you were meant to be, and when you encourage yourself to take the next step that is placed in front of you, then this sort of adventure will happen for you….

One of My Most Amazing Days
Today was the second day of the Bali Institute and was, quite simply, one of the best days of my life.

First Amazing Event

Breakfast:  I sat across the table from the former Minister of Culture and Tourism of Bali. I asked him about his ideas on tourism and he told me that it needed to be a tool not a goal of Bali.  I told him about the idea that Dave Seligman shared with me about having villagers gather up plastic, put it in bags, sell it for three dollars, the plastic would get recycled and turned into beautiful building materials.  I added my ideas that the village could receive a play structure for the kids to play on and improve their brains, and we could even work in a little English instruction, and diet education.

He said he loved my ideas. He said, “I want to underline what you just said,” and “I couldn’t agree with you more!” I told him he was the highest ranking person who had ever thought I had great ideas. We hugged at the end of breakfast, and he headed off for a meeting to put into practice some of the ideas we’ve been talking about. Magic, magic, magic.

Second Amazing Event

We went to the Royal Palace and got a personal tour by the Prince. Then we stayed there all day dialoguing and were served a magnificent lunch which was prepared by his wife. It is very clear to me that I do have something to offer this group. No more doubts about that.

We might be the first group of Westerners to ever be invited into the inner sanctum of the palace to have such a meeting. How about that?

Third Amazing Event

We went to the Green School and got a tour by the director. Everything is made out of bamboo. Everything. They even figured out a way to make a dry erase board using bamboo and old car windshields. They have diverted a small part of the river and put in pipes to create a vortex that they can drop the turbine into and generate their own power. They are waiting for a permit and as soon as that happens they will be off the grid. This would be the first water generated turbine in Indonesia. This one simple idea could give power to the villages all over Bali, all over Indonesia. Right now all of Bali’s power comes from Java and is sent under the ocean.

The seventh and eighth graders wanted a place to hang out, so one was built. They had engineers come in to teach them, they had crafters come in and teach them how to put together bamboo, and when the building was going up, the engineers were told to stand by and watch, and to not interfere unless it was a matter of safety. These kids learn by doing.

All of the teachers and students are involved in the rice process. They plant it, tend, harvest, cook, and serve it. All organic, of course.

Eighty percent of the students are international students, 20% are Balinese students on scholarship. If you would like to donate to the scholarship for one of these Balinese children, let me know. They will put up a bamboo pole with your name on it in your honor. Of the 80% of international students, 40% of the students’ families moved to Bali just so their children could participate in the green school. They have built the largest bamboo building in the world. The students love school so much, they come an hour early and have classes down by the river, and stay late. There is an energy and joy at the school that nourishes my soul.

The founder of the school, John Hardy, talked to us after dinner. He said Al Gore’s movie “An Inconvenient Truth” changed him completely. He decided that instead of spending his retirement chasing little white balls around a golf course, which he called a toxic dump, he thought he should do something, whatever he could, to make the world a better place for his children and grandchildren.

I hope I have communicated a small portion of why this was one of the most amazing days of my life. How did I get here? No one in my family read, no one traveled, only two cousins even went to college. And here I am.

Blessings to all of you,

Vicki

Good News and the Green Front!

December 17th, 2009
The Green School

Just a few weeks ago I was able to get a tour of the internationally famous Green School in Bali by its Director, Ronald Stones. The Visionary Advisory Board of the Bali Institute for Global Renewal got a special tour plus a great meal and a talk from The Green School’s founder.

Want some good news? Check out their website and read about how they are training the Green Leaders of the future by immersing them deeply in a green, sustainable environment.   Everything, and I mean everything, in the school is made of bamboo.

Check it out and Happy Holidays!

Vicki

Play with Possibility Date

December 14th, 2009

Would you like to play with possibility for fifteen minutes with me? I will make you laugh!

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Blessings,
Vicki

The Dangerous Business of Joy

December 13th, 2009


How Can Joy be Dangerous?


The most trouble I have ever gotten into at work was for being happy. Actually, I probably could have gotten away with being happy, but when I combined being happy with being effective and not being a workaholic, I broke too many rules.

Taking a stand for living joyfully in your business and your life will simply be the most courageous act you have ever taken. When you make a decision to infuse everything you do with joy, to define your journey as the goal, you will join the likes of Gandhi, Desmond Tutu, and Tina Fay.

You will cause trouble wherever you go. By refusing to buy into the beliefs that you must be a workaholic to succeed and that fun is frivolous, you will disturb anyone who has chosen a heavy-handed, heavy-footed manner of walking on this planet.

Fun is NOT a Four Letter Word

Your own health and well-being will soar. You will be able to laugh sooner at life’s foibles rather than later. Your brain will work quickly and effectively. Your creativity will explode and your ability to love, forgive and feel gratitude will expand exponentially.

People will start to say things such as, “Must you be so relentlessly uplifting?” They will doubt your sincerity, your sanity, your intelligence, and yet you will skip along transforming hostility into kindness, increasing your abundance in every way, and serving the world. Your purpose will become even more clear and happiness will be The Way You Live instead of a destination you will get around to when you have more time.

You will be your own authority because you will not give your power away to others. Let them think you are making a fool out of yourself. So what? Let them abandon you, despise or defame you – it won’t matter. Of course, we would all prefer constant love and approval. But when we commit to living joyfully every day, we will get to experience the pleasure of sipping approval at dinner instead of the frenzy of guzzling it from a paper sack under a bridge. (Okay, I got a bit carried away there.)

When you find your authentic voice, and you practice the courage to speak your truth into the world, when you are fierce in the kindest way, and you simply never give up, when you find the joke first and are able to fly because you take yourself so lightly, you will be hooked!

All your habits and relationships will transform through the healing power of joy. And you will be dangerous indeed!

Get a Coach!

Want help getting hooked on the power and clarity of committing to living a joyful life? Great coaching can make all the difference. Contact my business manager, Sandy Parker at sandy@myefficientassistant.com to set up a free fifteen minute appointment with me and we will have a Play Date with Possibility.

Blessings,

Vicki

What Gets in My Way and Yours

December 2nd, 2009

 

I’m in Bali right now to attend a planning session for the Bali Institute for Global Renewal. Hearts and minds from Indonesia, India, Pakistan, America, Japan, and probably some other places I don’t know yet have gathered here to create a learning center which celebrates indigenous wisdom, leadership, and activism. Thirty of us are going to hang out, ask wonderful questions and make plans for an international conference in Bali in December of 2010.

 

When I was reading about the people who were attending and all their accomplishments, I kept chanting to myself, “I have something to contribute. I have something to contribute. I have something to contribute.” Even though I am very confident that I do have something to contribute, that part of me that worries whether I belong got triggered.

 

“Who do I think I am anyway?” is the question, the ghost, the spell, that keeps lurching through the room. It dives at my head. It whispers in my ear. It sits on my chest. It looms. It jeers. It invites me to crawl back into a small place, a cramped container that is very familiar to me.

 

So the question is: am I going to play small, or am I going to expand into my full capacity? Playing small is a non-option. But how do I support myself in this wrestling match with Incompetence?

 

I email my coach. I tell her what is happening and ask for her advice. She replies immediately and this is what she says: “Look around and see if there’s anyone else there who has accomplished as much as you have, who is blind, joyful, and as funny as you are. Pull your head out of your ass.”

 

Good advice. So good I pulled my head right out.

 

So what stops you? Want to learn to laugh about it? Contact my business manager Sandy Parker, at Sandy@myefficientassistant.com to set up an appointment for a free 15 minute Play Date. What’s stopping you?

 

Blessings,

 

Vicki

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